Do you think in getting along with someone should require efforts? it shouldn’t right? In my opinion, if there is even a split second in which you find yourself uncomfotable, awkward, or even trying so hard to come up with topics of discussions then you pershaps wouldn’t quite get along with that person. To be precise,by getting along here means to develop close relationship, like turning into best friends, for instance.
I doubt if this logic applies to everyone. But as a feeler, i judges things from my heart. And it often says right. There are countless events which i try to ‘friend’ someone only to give myself a shot to interact with different types of people. Never work quite well, particularly in the long term. I guess there is nothing strange about it after all. Friends are friends simply due to shared interests and personality traits….that’s just how it works.
point for emphasis to self: stop doing things my heart says no and be in control of my own life regardless of what people say. yea, that should save myself from acting like an ass and feeling like an outcast.
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You, act like an ass? That’s IMPOSSIBLE !!! ;~>>
That said, I disagree a little. I don’t think it’s unusual to have some awkwardness at the beginning of a relationship. That’s because people can be wary at the start – especially if it’s with a member of the opposite sex. After a while, that should go away if it’s going to be a good, solid relationship.
And, I couldn’t agree more with your last paragraph. Trust your heart/instinct – it will rarely lead you astray.
you get the point. have to agree with you on this